“To Live and Mourn Simultaneously” for the title of this post because I truly believe it adequately describes how life goes on after a loss.
“Sudden and tragic loss leads to terrible darkness. It is an inescapable as nightmares during a high fever. The darkness comes, no matter how hard we try to hold it off. However threatening, we must face it, and we must face it alone.” – Jerry Sitser
The darkness is a topic I’ve written about before and it’s primarily because it’s a place I resided for a long time after Brittany’s death. In fact, it’s a place I’ve resided for a very long time. Throughout my life of what I’ve coined as “unfortunate events” I have found myself to become a familiar resident in the darkness.
When I say darkness, I don’t mean black, I mean like murky water – sometimes unable to see my way…
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